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Spend Time on Your Marriage Today, See The Benefits Today

It’s a big, crazy world out there, filled with distractions and a plethora of tasks that require your attention. The first thing we forget about are the ones that are close to us; they’re a constant, so they’ll understand that we’re focusing our time elsewhere, right? Well, that may be true, but you don’t want to burn the candle at both ends.

 

How To Devote Your Time

 Whether it’s work, friends, or various other obligations, you’re being pulled each way—it happens to the best of us. Time management isn’t an easy thing, that’s why we have actual professionals that do nothing but assist you in managing your time. You don’t want to have to hire a professional time manager—here’s how to devote your time depending on your current obligations.

 

Weekly “Boys Night”

 While yes, it’s important, you need to keep yourself to a time constraint. If you’re going to upkeep your weekly poker game or night out, don’t come crashing through at one in the morning. The best way you can invest time in your marriage is to set a schedule for yourself. If you’re telling the wife you’ll be home by 10:00 PM so the two of you can watch a movie and relax, then that’s exactly what you need to do. Even if she is your wife, absolutely nobody likes waiting beyond an agreed-upon time.

 

Cutting Back on Vices

 We’re all about vices on here, right? It’s all about maintenance and control. If you’re heading to the bar three nights a week after work, trim it down to one. If you’re playing golf on the weekends, (do people still do that?) cut it back to once per month. We all need to relax and destress, but nobody ever said you couldn’t do that with your wife.

 

Start Seeing Results

 Cutting back on your favorite things sounds like a raw deal, right? It’s not. Even if you’re out and about having the time of your life, you’re still exerting energy. Everything costs energy; we’re no stranger to this. You may be there for your wife when you’re home, but you’re mentally fogged. Devoting time to her comes with a more energized, more attentive version of yourself. The effects will show immediately.

 

What Can You Expect To Change

 It’s been proven: couples who spend more time together actually fight less than those who spend very little time together. It’s another instance of maintaining a balance. You should still be able to maintain your lifestyle and do the things you want to do, but just remember: you’re coming home to your best friend. You always have time for her. The more time you spend together, the stronger your marriage becomes.