How Polyamorous Relationships Work

There’s a big stigma on the poly crowd. In general, it’s most common to see a man, one woman, and another woman, but it’s not the land of sexual depravity that many make it out to be. It’s 2017—you’re encountering a generation that isn’t afraid to declare their sexuality, or simply live with it and ignore what others think. That’s a really cool thing, and polyamory has been around for ages.

 

It’s Not Some Guy With Five Wives

 In a lot of cases, polyamory includes women who are bisexual. Some believe that all women have the option to be attracted to other women, and that’s not totally farfetched. When you look at the details, women are soft, sometimes curvy, and always beautiful—why wouldn’t other women be attracted to them?

 

that nearly five percent of the nation are either gay, lesbian or bisexual. While most polyamorous relationships are one man and two women, this isn’t always the case. There’s no criteria that needs to be met, other than having more than one partner in a group. Many men salivate at the thought of “having two girls” in their lives, and each of them being okay with sexually responding to the desires of the other female.

 

News flash: polyamorous relationships aren’t specific to one gender, or one dynamic. Known polyamorous relationships have contained multiple partners, each existing within the confines of the mutual relationship as any standard partner would be. They are by for the good times, the bad times, emotional support, and, yes, even sexually.

 

The Veil of Misconception Rises

 As we exist within 2017, and further delve into the oncoming years, the existence of polyamorous relationships have become far more than an oddity of society. They’re slowly becoming identified by the public eye as a viable option for marriage.

 

In most states, coexisting with a member of the opposite sex, whom you share financial responsibilities with, such as rent, and regularly engage in sexual intercourse or other aspects of relationships, can all lead to a little something called common law marriage. This is when you appear as married, display your mutual affection to the outside world, and physically live together for, in most cases, ten years or more. In the eyes of the law—you are married.

 

However, there’s far more than simply splitting up belongings in thirds if you plan to go your separate ways. There are some polyamorous relationships that go all the way into childbearing years; this is when things tend to get complicated.

 

I Have Two Moms… And A Dad

 When it comes to children, you’re entering muddy waters. There are polyamorous relationships who bring children into the world, and it works completely fine. However, custody-related issues, should the trinity (or more) decide to split up, become extremely tricky. Polyamory isn’t the route that the willy-nilly take; those who are serious about pursuing these types of relationships end up putting careful, detailed planning into every single aspect.

 

While the situation of children is tricky, there’s nothing wrong with a child having three parents. Some children go through life with only one parent, or orphaned; there’s absolutely nothing negative about having more love from a special family dynamic.

 

How To Tell Them Apart

Quite frankly, those who boast about having a threesome, aren’t in a polyamorous relationship. When you’re looking at love for two, it has to come from each side evenly, like a triangle. Not everyone is cut out for this lifestyle, but it doesn’t mean that it can’t work. In the coming years, it’s expected to see polyamorous marriages, specific rights pertaining to polyamory, and more.

 

To tell them apart is simple: most polyamorous relationships don’t go around displaying it. Whether it’s out of fear of judgment or not, polyamorous partners aren’t looking to brag, or give intricate stories. It’s just another way to live and love in your life.